Is She The One
It is one of the patent dilemmas the smarter lot of men ponder upon often. These forward looking sort, as opposed to the ones that live for today, more often than not do think about their future and want some way to know whether the girl they are with presently cuts it to be the one to marry and subsequently have children with. But alas, these men are clearly not smart enough to figure out the answer to this question on their own, which is perhaps why they turn to the thing that knows you best, (save for yourself) the Internet, for answers to this question.
Jokes apart, finding the right person to marry is a pertinent question indeed. Whirlwind romances often end up in a thoughtless marriage in Vegas and then a terrible experience because you ended up marrying someone who wasn't 'right' for you at all. So the wiser men among us go for the Internet quizzes and asking the people around them to give a fair, unbiased and third-person assessment about their relationship.
The Great Soulmate Finding Quiz
So here's a small questionnaire which will help you assess the suitability of your current partner as a spouse for the rest of your life.
Has the relationship been pretty smooth over the longest period of time?
Or does it hit the rocks every now and then? Because if it does, you presumably do not want to end up in a long term relationship with someone with whom you have a lot of fights. It is tough and you certainly do not want to have a fight every single day. But if you don't, and you understand each others problems just fine and get along really well, then there is not doubt that she is the one for you.
Ideal answer: Yes.
Does she get along with your family and friends?
Because if she doesn't, it's going to trouble you in the long term. If she doesn't get along with your friends, then she probably will forbid you from meeting them or make you avoid them. Which I'm guessing is not the sort of situation you'll revel in. Even when it comes to the family, there will be a terribly strained atmosphere in the house each time they come to your house or you go to theirs.
Ideal answer: Yes
Is there something major which you want to change about her?
Because if there is something about her that really bothers you, you really can't live the rest of your life with it. You may think that it's a small thing, but often it is these small things that make a relationship go sour in the long run.
Ideal Answer: No.
Do you love spending time with her?
Apart from the time at night. Compatibility issues are one more thing which you need to look at while thinking long term. Couples that are not compatible and don't share much in common often get caught in a marriage which neither enjoys. Because when you get married, more important things than sex will come to the fore such as common interests, the conversations, the way to look at a particular situation, etc.
Ideal answer: Yes
Does it feel right?
You need to look at the relationship objectively and try to understand and justify to yourself that taking this relationship forward, and to the next level is the right thing to do or not. You don't have any problems committing your long term relationship and a sizable portion of your life to this person, you enjoy her company and she enjoys yours and you feel very comfortable with the thought of marriage and the like. So if you are wondering is she right for me, then surely, you need to look into your own heart and think to yourself.
Ideal answer: Yes
How to know if she's the right one for you is not really as tough as you think. Because if you think she is, that you'll know it and there will be no debate in your head about it!
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