New Relationship Advice


So you feel you have finally met the right guy and are ready for a new relationship? Okay, that is a piece of good news if you are sure of this. If in case you are skeptical, whoa! Then it is going to be a bit rough of a ride. Especially for those girls for whom it is the first ever relationship, it can be a tricky job. Because a new relationship comes with its own set of sensitivities, emotions, apprehensions and of course that 'moony' feeling about your guy as well. Then how do you deal with this? Well, the best thing to do would be catch hold of a friend in a relationship or who has been in one. Also, go through the text given below.

Advice for a New Relationship

Amnesia - Memory Loss
If you have been in a relationship, then this is exclusively for you. Single girls, don't worry, your time will come! So move on. By memory loss I am making an allusion to forgetting about your past relationship. Let the bygones be bygones. Things happen, you err. Perhaps ending a relationship was the best thing that could happen to you, because believe me when I say that your turn will come. Take the cue and move on. Do not brood over it. This is one of the basic new relationship tips.

I, Me, Myself
You might be wondering why am I asking you to think only about yourself. But believe me, that works. Just be yourself when you are in a relationship and know what you want. Do not try to be someone you are not. It is a surefire way to mess up your fairy tale. This applies both to guys as well as girls. Although it is a bit more for girls because some of them do tend to mold themselves in a way that the guy likes. Remember Katherine Heigl in The Ugly Truth? That is a big no no girls!

Getting Pally
Do not ignore or sideline your friends who have been there with you through thick and thin when you are in a relationship. At the same time, get to know your guy or girl's buddies and create a good rapport with them. This helps strengthening the relationship further.

Honesty, the Best Policy
An extremely important piece of advice is to be frank and honest. Be open about what you think about him or her or even generally, about your life, personal matters and so on. No relationship can grow without honesty, people!

Once Upon A Time
Please do not scurry off into things, guys and girls. It is a matter of your li'l heart. Take it easy. Give yourself time to get totally immersed in this wonderful feeling. Just as you give yourself time, give time to each other as well, although you can avoid overdoing it. Pining for the next meet will flourish the feelings you have for each other. Meeting every other day in a new relationship is not a very good idea. Once a week, is just about perfect. Even when you meet, your actions need not reflect the outsiders about your feelings beyond a certain extent. That is your own little secret, so keep it between you two!

Maintain the Space
Being busy in your routines is a great way to keep the hots going for each other! Being overwhelmed and having a desire to be together all the time is irresistible. But darlings, giving each other space as well as maintaining outside engagements and interests will add spice to your relationship.

Tips for a New Relationship
  • Analyze and be clear as to what do you want from your relationship and see if your relationship fits the bill.
  • Never ever go in for a new relationship unless you are totally ready to do so. It could be nothing short of a disaster then!
  • Your instincts are your best guides. Hence girls, keep your sixth sense on its toes and read it!
  • Crossing the river when you come to it is the best bet. Avoid spilling the beans that you are thinking of your (both of you) future unless it is the right time.
  • Finally, have faith. Not being jealous and insecure will work towards a healthy relationship.
To say the least, There are no hard and fast rules when it is about matters of the heart. It is like to each his own. The kind of person you are, makes a herculean impact on how you deal with relationships. Thus, relationship advice will vary for every individual and so will the tips!

Then, when are you going for the next rendezvous with your special someone? If you have not fixed it, go ahead, fix it soon! Have a great time! This is where I sign off and find my dream guy as well! All the Best!

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