We girls often dream that someday we will meet our 'Mr. Right' who will not only love us unconditionally but will also bring meaning to our lives. I am sure every girl fantasies her Mr. Right to be one who will stand by her against all odds and will always take care of her and be there to listen to those unspoken words of her heart. For him, she will be his entire world, and her love and presence in his life will make his life living worthwhile. But reality is far away from the dreamworld we all girls live in. Relationships can be extremely difficult to handle, especially if we make wrong choices in our life. Two people in relationship who are different in all aspects like their perception towards life, love, family, career, etc., it can be very difficult for them to sustain their relation life long. Hence, it is very important to know what to look for in a guy, so that you don't end up making wrong decisions in your life which may lead you nowhere other than breakups or heart breaks or regrets.
Things to Look for in a Guy
It would be unfair on my part if I say looks or physical appearance do not matter when it comes to choosing your 'Mr. Right'. I am sure every girl wants to have a tall, dark, handsome, well built and attractive guy, who will steal her heart in just the first glance. But as it is said, 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' physical attributes should not be the only criteria when it comes to things to look for in your guy. Therefore, here are some basic attributes that are a must in your Mr. Right and will help you deciding what to look for in a man.
Generosity: A guy should be one who can give as much as he can take. The guy should be humble, kind and gentle at heart, who likes sharing and in times of need can go little beyond his zone of comfort to help others.
Patience: Patience is next important quality you must look for in your guy. Times when you are upset, angry or just have mood swings, a guy should have patience to bear all that as well as have the courage to walk beside you during those rough spots of your relationship.
Career Oriented: Next important attribute to look for in a guy is whether or not he is ambitious. In today's time where there is neck to neck competition in any field you go, it is essential for him to be career oriented and strive hard to achieve his goals. Moreover, a man with steady and strong goals or ambitions in life will not only pave his way to success, but will also encourage you to move forward and help in achieving your dreams.
Honesty: The most essential quality that every guy should have is honesty. A guy who will never lie to you despite the situations around, is someone whom you can trust throughout your life irrespective of whether or not you are in a relationship with him.
Loyalty: Next important attribute to see in a guy is loyalty, as no girl would ever like to see her guy turning around or check out other girls. Hence, if you are one of those girls who get jealous easily, avoid going for guys who get over friendly or flirty with other girls.
Intelligence: He should have a good intellect as the guys who can not hold up a good and decent conversation can totally be a turn off for girls. Hence, girls like guys who are smart, well spoken with a mind of their own.
Humor: Next thing to look in your guy is a great sense of humor. All girls like guys who make them laugh, so the guy should be light hearted and should have an ability to laugh at himself without taking things too seriously.
Well, this list can go on and on. Though the preferences can vary from one girl to another, these were some of the qualities that I would surely look in my guy. I am sure after reading this article not only girls but even guys would know what are various attributes that most girls look in their 'Mr. Right'.
