It all starts with numerous relationship issues popping up one by one and consequentially, a relationship break up occurs. In some cases, it is quite early (fair enough), while in some cases, it ends after years (sad enough). Of late, if you have been witnessing dramatic changes in the mood and behavior of your partner and relationship issues that never existed in the relationship are now being exaggerated, then it is high time to rethink. Your partner seems to be no more the same as he or she was when you started dating. Well that is the warning bell ringing for you. You need a relationship break and shift your focus on your priorities and if you should really continue in the relationship. Don't jump to a relationship break up. Take the 'is it time to break up quiz for boyfriend/ girlfriend' and get some idea about where you stand in your relationship.
Questions to Ponder Before Breaking Up
Here are some questions that you need to answers before you're ready to take any decision of the future course of your relationship. The answer of these questions is either 'Yes' and 'No'. If you answer many questions as Yes, then take it as a warning bell. The quiz is as follows:
- Does you partner ignores you now frequently?
- Does you partner avoids your phone calls or talks in a closed manner?
- When asked about the problem, your partner answers in a disinterested way?
- Silence that was previously positive has taken a negative connotation. Does the silence now feels to be awkward.
- Your partner promises to call you but seldom does?
- Respect is the foundation of your relationship. Does he respect you, treats you fairly?
- Physical intimacy, gentle touches, pecks and kisses seems to have lost? He remains with you but seems to be lost in his own world?
- Do you feel happy with him or her just like you used to in the initial phases of the relationship?
- Do fights and arguments between you both turn out to be major events of your life?
- Has your partner's attitude toward the relationship changed drastically?
- Do you find your partner flirting excessively with someone else?
- Incidents of breach of trust are occurring frequently and either one of you is bewildered as to where the relationship is headed?
- Do your family and friends feel happy with your relationship and about your partner's overall attitude?
- Has your partner developed new habits like smoking, drinking or consuming drugs?
- Has the frequency of expressing love for each other reduced to minimum possible?
- Are you and your partner suspicious of each other?
- Does your partner take your opinions when he has to make any decisions? Were they earlier doing that but now pay no heed to your advice?
- Do you feel stressed in the relationship? You feel dominated and not happy with the behavior?
- Does your partner has emotionally shut down any advances to you. There seems to be no correlation between what your partner. What he was and what he is?
