Looking out for the special someone? Or wondering how to ask out a guy for the New Year's party? Or don't have any company for movie tonight? Whatever the reasons are, flirting is a great way of knowing a man or a woman you admire. It's important that you know the flirting tips and tricks, so that, firstly you don't fail to see the advances and you can reciprocate to suit your best needs. The first law of flirting tips and tricks is to dump pick up lines. Face it, they are corny! So what are the other laws? Take these few good flirting tips and tricks to improve your style and get the person you've been eying.
Best Tips and Tricks for Flirting
Smile
Smile the eighth wonder of life. Seriously, a smile can do what words can't. Smiling at a person you've been trying to get, is the first step to tell him/her that you've accepted him/her. Avoid acting pricey and shunning your potential date away. Put on that gorgeous smile and the rest will be His-Story!
Beautiful Eyes
There has to be some amount of truth in the clich, 'your eyes say it all'. Make an eye contact with the person you've been eying for so long. An eye contact works like a handshake. Firmer the eye contact, surer the person is of you. So make a strong eye contact of five seconds and then shy away, just for the heck of it! Shying away will create a mystery, and trust me, we are always after the unknown enigmas. So this one, out of flirting tips and techniques, is yours, you do it well.
Know Yourself
Some people dress up garishly and often in offending colors. By offending colors I mean they actually make themselves look like the biggest fashion disaster ever! Take this flirting tip seriously to analyze the best part of you. It's meant for both, men and women. Carry yourself with elegance and ease. We all like to see Angelina Jolie in skimpy clothes, but don't do, if you can't carry it. The more at ease you'll be, the better you'll be while making your flirting moves. Read more on flirting tips for shy girls.
Sweet Everything's
Communication is the key word. It's very essential to start a conversation on a romantic note. If you are a guy, you could start a conversation with a romantic question like, 'what's your first love?' and if you are a girl, you could begin with a romantic question like, 'how was your first kiss'?. You can begin asking question if only you've reached that stage with each other. Whisper you sexy voice with the 'sweet nothings', which to me are 'sweet everything' in her/his ear to move closer. Touch the shoulder as you whisper something in the ear and then accidentally touch your lips to the ears! The repercussions of this accident are definitely worth it!
Precious Touch
The touch has a million things to say. Touch the person you are flirting with on the arm, hands or sometimes holds hands too. In case you get lucky, hold the waist, it's really sensuous! If you are a guy, gently tuck the hair locks fallen on your girl's face. Women love it. Touch shows your warmth to the other person. It can also entice the person sexually, which can draw both of you closer. So think about it!
Hide and Seek
Play a hide and seek with your partner. Give your partner a little chance to pine for you. Disappear on a phone call or to buy a drink. Come back after 20 minutes and hear him/her whine for you! Then cutely hug your partner, kiss on the head, and whisper in the ear, you'll do anything to make up for the lost time! Wonder what's next?!!
The Final Move
Now that you've got your hold on the person, it's time for the final move. Choose a quiet place to do this. Step out of the nightclub or wherever you are if needed. As the person keeps talking, tilt your head a little and smile back. Pretend as though you are listening to what they have to say. Abruptly hold your partner's hand and...need I say more?
For many, flirting is the most difficult thing to do. Actually, flirting tips and techniques will come to you naturally, if you stop thinking about it. The simple truth about flirting tips and tricks is to be at ease and just play who you are. Let these flirting tips and tricks be your guide to help you get the man or the women of your dreams!
