Hey congrats! Basking in the glory that you have gained a formal entry into the good books of the Ms. pretty face of your college, huh! And she has said an emphatic yes to your first date proposal? Great job done buddy. But isn't that giving you goose bumps? I guess it is, isn't it?
First Date Ideas
Well, first date, probably is one of the most joyful and fun filled experiences of life. The charm of meeting that someone special and spending some memorable moments with her is really awesome. The adrenalin rush, the excitement and loads of questions make the first date, one of the most challenging and nerve wrecking task for many people. But you needn't worry about the outcome of the first date. And why only boys? Girls, you too might have similar experiences, in case you are asking the Mr. Hunk for a date with you. Right? Yes, so dating tips for both girls and boys are more or less the same. Enjoy them and make sure you follow them when you meet your date.
Look Adorable!
Warning: Don't spend your entire pocket money on buying some of the latest fashion apparels (and then borrow money the entire month from your friends!) Be yourself! Wear what you are comfortable in! Look smart and neatly dressed. Put on a cheerful face, it would be cherished more than some branded t-shirt, which may even go unnoticed! Girls, for you, only one advise; Don't overdo your make up.
Visit a Bookstore!
What? How boring? Nasty idea? Okay, I can feel many of you erupting with roars of loud noise. But hang on friends! Visiting a good book store is one of the excellent first date ideas. There are so many reasons to it. First of all, the bookstore will give you a chance to get acquainted with your girls' or guy's interest areas. What drives a relationship is the combination of likes and dislikes. In case, your music and reading interests match, think how great it would be! Your conversation would start automatically leading to a rich information exchange. You will get to know various facets of your date's personality. Remember, if you want to know him/her better, a bookstore is the best place. Besides, who on this Earth says, a bookstore is a boring place? There are cafes and coffee shops around, you can sit there and talk. Remember, it's all about your likes. If you both love books, you won't think of boring or something like that! And you won't even have to think about 'What to talk and ask each other?'. Just talk about books and once you are comfortable the conversation will automatically flow to other things.
Go to an Amusement Park!
Don't say it's for kids. Okay. There is a kid in each of us, probably we are big kids. Go along with your date to an amusement park and enjoy the excitement of rides! Sounds fun? With so many people around and such a buzzy environment, you will have ample amount of things to do and talk about.
Defy the Gravity!
If adventure thrills you, ask her to go on a ballooning trip with you. Yes, generally girls are afraid of heights and she may hold on to you, which will surely work for you (wow!). However, if she is more than ready and you are afraid of heights (damn it buddy!), then also give it a try! You can't say no in this case to a girl (for a change you can hold on to her). Either ways, it works for you! Defy the gravity and enjoy the view of the world with the fresh feeling of being in love.
These are some ideas for the first date. Wherever you go and whatever you do, remember that you should try to understand the other person instead of judging him/her at every step, try to connect with him/her emotionally. Be comfortable on the date, make your date feel comfortable and share your life views and thoughts. Don't cloud your mind with a lot of expectations. Just live the moment. Then, you will surely come out with beautiful memories! All the best! Hasta la Vista, boys and girls!
